Hello, this is for any one of you younger people out there who has been married for one or two years, and you think that marriage is not for you. Yet you already have one or two children. THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING! if you leave this family, to maybe try life as a single person again, or maybe because you think that you have found that one little gal that makes you think that you are still a man, stop what you are doing, and stay with that wonderful little family that you have started. If you don't, by the time that you hit forty, you are going to start thinking about eating the cold end of a 357 because it is then, and only then, that you will realize just how much of those children's lives that you have missed, and just how much of a real man, that you are NOT! Trust me, there is nothing that hurts worse than to suddenly realize that your children say that they love you, yet, by all of thier actions, they don't consider you a member of the family. Think about it! Dec 17 2003